Its also depends whether one is Left or Right brained
(Pardon me as my German is not strong. So I have attempted this post in English).
I would hesistate to agree on "Love at first sight".
Its mostly lust at first sight, the adrenalin rush driven by inputs received from sight, smell, sound and touch, maybe taste as well! * Wink *
Love grows and blossoms later after you experience Happiness. And happiness is a result of Pleasure and Meaning [/ i] combined. * Top *
"Meaning" refers to the value you see in the relationship after pleasurable fires have burnt.
It also has to do with Whether you are Left Brained (logical thinker) or Right Brained (artistic nature).
After reading the posts, I tend to agree more that women in general are Right brained.