hab ich gefunden in einem anderen Frage / Antwort Forum.
I’m a trans woman and I have no problems using women's bathroom or washrooms because I’m a woman. I go there to do my business and nothing else. When I was early in my transition I would not even dare to go out of my house cause I didn’t wanna confuse anyone who looks at me. I wanted to make sure I look every inch of a woman. and I only started going out dressed as a woman when delivery drivers started calling me miss and customer services on the phone regard me as a woman. I even tried maybe 3 times going to male public washrooms and I was escorted out by security guards leading me to the female washroom. That gave me the confidence that I am now a woman. If you’re a transwoman, and still in public, people are looking at you differently and you’re unable to use women’s bathrooms??? sweetie, you need more work on yourself.
Please don’t expect women to accept you as a woman if you still look like a man. This is not to put you down, but it took me two years before I can go out confidently. I had to learn every trick in the book to become passable. Put on some more work on yourself, and this shouldn’t even be a question.
Again, don’t expect women to be comfortable being naked with another person in a room meant for women only. They expect to see women. and if you look like a man still, it means you need to go home and find a way to be better. We are trans women because we had to transition to become a woman. If you still look like a man in the eyes of others, you have not done your assignment well.
Unfortunately sweetheart, this is the life that we have to live by. You also have to think of women’s safety. Any pervert can just dress up as a woman, declare he is a woman and then go inside a woman’s bathroom. What a pervert pretending to be a woman can’t do is to be on hormone medication like we do. HRT meds will feminize his features. It will not even make his dick erect. He will have smaller balls and he will grow real breasts. His facial features will also become smoother and he will grow weaker and his libido tamed. He will hate that. So perverts will only cross-dress as a woman and declare he is a woman. We should advocate to protect women from that. And if it meant us going home to do better with ourselves, then be it.
SA is not a something that should be taken lightly and it’s real. If you want women to protect you, protect them too. Understand where they are coming from and know your place. There will always be discrimination against us in public places, we cannot control that… what we can control is ourselves. Be better. Work on yourself first. There are many ways.
in ehren
Zatoichi
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und danke WIEDER einmal für deine nahezu unbeirrbare, hm: Geradlinigkeit.
