Zitat von *********Touch:
„Yes, I agree, way more sensual. I always compare it to a dance, there is a lot of emotion involved and there is constant movement and interaction. It's almost more about the journey than the end result.
Chains to me are just there to produce the result and the actual interaction happens afterwards.
I understand. I am really not that good at these kinds of sensual interaction things. I do not connect with people that deeply. At some level both me and my play partners are doing a transaction for the mutual satisfaction of fantasies.
dont misunderstand this, it is not cold, we are warm friends but the kink part is more about fantasy than connection
so please do not judge it is just friends having fun, like D&D, my character is the torturer :))
But it explains their popularity.
Chains are not simply about the end result but when it is not so much about a connection but having a fantasy you want to play out. "wow I look and feel like a slave now" "wow it looks and feels like owning a slave now"
I will set this as a new Topic of the Day now.
Kink as connection or kink as roleplaying / trying out your secret fantasies?
@**********oissy yes for example the historic prison stuff is more about satisfying fantasy than connection
I wish I could buy these rusty shitty old shackles and decorate my walls with them :))
