Dear kinksters,
What brought you to BDSM? Can you pinpoint the event or the experience in your life that lead you cross the BDSM/Vanilla line permanently?
With me, I would say it's inbred.
My first sexual fantasies and wet dreams were of a sadistic nature and that just never changed.
In real life, it took quite a few years and an experienced sub to make these fantasies come true and quite some psychological labor for me to come to terms with my desires...