Meine Gedanken, aber auf english
Sorry , aber um mich verständigen zu können muss ich als mal auf english schreiben, um etwas mehr erklären zu können. Hoffe ein paar von euch kann english . Meine Gedanken zum Daddy ,
What a Daddy should be like , in my eyes and what he should think for himself , I know a bit bratty
"You know you're a Daddy when..."
... when you love to hear her giggle and call you Daddy.
... when you get text message images of Hello Kitty anything.
... when you love snuggle time just as much as spanking time.
... when you realize Hello Kitty on her is sexier than anything from Frederick's.
... when you realize that her happiness and well being is essential to your own.
... when your babygirl is the first thing that you think about when you wake up.
... when her happiness and giggles are more important than anything in the world to you.
... when you have "I <3 my Daddy" in crayon on paper attached to the refrigerator door.
.... when you are filled with pride and love for and in her every time your babygirl excels at life.
... when your soul ignites with a passion to nurture, to protect, to guide, and to love your babygirl.
... when hearing her say “daddy” in that small cute voice gives you chills and makes you feel like everything is right in the world.
... when you have to decide is she being bratty and needs a spanking, or trying to be slick and being bratty cause she wants a spanking.
... when you go into a toy store and buy a new stuffie for your babygirl, and then walk into an adult toy store and buy something to stuff your little girl with.
... when you get separated at a large shopping center and you tell the associate "could you page a customer for me? I've lost my little girl ... err ... I mean my girlfriend."
... when your thoughts at work drift to the last time you had your little girl in your arms cuddling after hours of playtime, and you can’t wait to talk to her and listen to her tell Daddy how her day went.
.... when you are so angry at her for some silly thing she has done and she looks at you with those eyes and quivering lower lip and your heart melts and you can not remember why you are angry in the first place.
... when you notice she is upset crying, you sit her on your lap gently rocking her, rubbing her back, running your hand slowly through her hair, wiping her tears, and whispering in her ear "it's ok sweetheart, Daddy is here".
A Daddy Dom is a Dom that looks after his little girl, not only punishes when she's bad, but loves her when she's good. She can expect to be disciplined on a regular basis, but afterward, loved and cuddled and fed ice cream. A Daddy would love to fed his little girl ice cream all the time, but knows she needs more, she needs someone that is not only gentle, but one who is firm when necessary.
A Daddy is a mentor; not only does he train his little girl, he helps her become the best she can be. He sees his little girl through a Daddy's eyes, sees the best in her, always loves her, sees who she really is inside, the princess she was meant to be.
A Daddy loves his little girl unconditionally, accepts all her flaws, will always love his little girl no matter what she does.
A Daddy is a protector, someone to turn to when dealing with problems, physical, mental, and emotional.
A Daddy is someone she can open up to totally, bare her soul, tell all her secrets too knowing her Daddy will always love her and will always be there for her no matter what, the center of her universe, her shelter in the storm, her anchor for her soul.
A friend of mine once insisted that a Dom should be well dressed, should look like a gentleman. I disagree; a Dom should BE a gentleman, not just look the part. Being a modern gentleman is a behavior, not a mode of dress, or a circumstance of birth. It is how a person treats those around them, from the waiter at a restaurant, to friends and acquaintances, to their mother, and to their submissives.
So why is it important for a Dominant to be a Gentleman?
A Gentleman is self control. He does not go in to tirades or lash out at others. Instructions are given politely and corrections are given firmly but no more harshly than needed. He does not belittle others for he knows he is fallible as well.
A Gentleman is self-aware thus confident. Know thyself and to thine own self be true! A Gentleman knows his strengths and his weaknesses; a gentleman is not pretentious, never acting to be what he is not. He knows what he is and is confident, not arrogant.
A Gentleman is honorable. He may make his own rules, but he will communicate those rules and he will not violate them. He does not make promises lightly, and the promises he makes, he will keep.
A Gentleman perpetually seeks knowledge. He knows what he knows and how little that truly is in the scope of things. He knows the important difference between Theory, Fact and Opinion. A student for life, the whole world is his classroom.
A Gentleman treats everyone with respect, until they prove themselves unworthy of respect. He is no pushover, and will stand strong for himself and what is his.
I choose to be a Gentleman, and to associate with other Gentlemen and Ladies, dominant or submissive.
