Gentle Female Domination (GFD)

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*****978 Frau

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Themenersteller

Dear all,

First, I would like to apologise for my English, but I am a non-German speaking JC member. (If somebody would like to help me translating, I would be grateful)

I am a gentle FemDom and my marriage was a FLR (11 years). I like to be in charge and control, but I don’t like causing pain and humiliating verbally my submissive (this can happen exceptionally as part of a sexual or foot game). I want to be the absolute priority for him and I can be strict, without being disciplinarian and imposing punishments. I am more of a caregiver and I believe in natural leadership that is inspired by my personality, rather than based on rules and punishments.

This in the day-to-day life. In bed I can be dominant and have games like anal play, foot domination etc.

So far, the majority of men who have approached me are pure slaves that want very strict rules and blind obedience 24/7, but this relationship model is not of my type.

Are there in our group people who have experienced something similar to what i have described? I would be happy to have ur views on the topic.

Liebe Grüße

Kate

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„Gentle Female Domination (GFD)
Dear all,

First, I would like to apologise for my English, but I am a non-German speaking JC member. (If somebody would like to help me translating, I would be grateful)

I am a gentle FemDom and my marriage was a FLR (11 years). I like to be in charge and control, but I don’t like causing pain and humiliating verbally my submissive (this can happen exceptionally as part of a sexual or foot game). I want to be the absolute priority for him and I can be strict, without being disciplinarian and imposing punishments. I am more of a caregiver and I believe in natural leadership that is inspired by my personality, rather than based on rules and punishments.

This in the day-to-day life. In bed I can be dominant and have games like anal play, foot domination etc.

So far, the majority of men who have approached me are pure slaves that want very strict rules and blind obedience 24/7, but this relationship model is not of my type.

Are there in our group people who have experienced something similar to what i have described? I would be happy to have ur views on the topic.

Liebe Grüße

Kate

dear Kate,
i am a sub who enjoy domination not just phsyical but mental, a domination where i serve mistress due to respect not due to fear. i am also not into too much of pain and all but i do like little bit strictness from time to time and scolding if i am being bratty ( which i like sometimes) but on general i love and enjoy Gentle femdom, sensual femdom.
i hope you will find someone lime this close to you... its pitty i am bit far away ( not 1000 km though ;))

p.s wish you a lovely new year.

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****ex Mann

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Hey Kate,

I like your view on that.

I also think that the loving and caring approach in a dominant relationship carries so much more value than just pure strictness and rule-based behavior. Although some rules and punishments surely won't hurt

But those details are to discuss within the relationship....
When you emphasize the traits of your personality and develop your own leadership-style, i think that is a much more stable approach to handling a submissive. Because then the submissive one can also focus more on your personality and both can establish a strong bonding on an emotional level.

I could experience that in my first FLR, half a year ago. And my mistress was strict for some part, but she had so much love and affection to offer that it really was an enjoyable time! Due to her own personality i could adapt to her style, pay attention to her way of living and support her.

Its sad, that you made all those negative experiences. As you described, most of the applicants probably lack some of the need for much love or care.
But there are all types of people out there! Males that share the same view as you are definitely alive, and even some of them are on JC!

It may just take some time to find them since they are probably less in number and more shy. Because i only always read from women who complain about the dic-pic-approaches and non-honest applications

But of course i am also very interested in the opinions of other people here

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*****978 Frau

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Themenersteller

Thank u both of u for ur insights! It’s exactly the way u described it. Submission that is based on respect and admiration, rather than fear.

This kind of dominance requires people to get to know each other; it’s not a priori dominance just because I have declared in JC that I favor FLR.

On top, FLR is for me a real-life relationship and not a Spiel Beziehung. Presupposes common interests and goals and not just the intention of me to dominate and the man to submit to me. My submissive will also be my partner, will meet my family and friends.

Hey Kate, i would like to have a personal conversation about this with you. So if you would like to talk about this topic with me, feel free to write me 😊

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********ker1 Mann

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