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*******ner Mann
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Gemeinsame Bibliothek
Hallo Leute,

es gibt viele gute Bücher (und andere Medien) übers Fesseln. Hier könnt Ihr posten, welche Werke Ihr bereit wärt, zu unseren zukünftigen Treffen mitzubringen. Damit helft Ihr anderen, gute Kaufentscheidungen zu treffen oder sich eine Anschaffung zu sparen! Ich werde mich bemühen, die unten stehende Liste aktuell zu halten.

Ihr möchtet zur gemeinsamen Bibliothek beitragen? Postet einfach in diesem Thread, um welches Werk es geht. Titel, Autor, vielleicht noch eine kurze Zusammenfassung und ein Link, oder ein flammendes Plädoyer =).

Ihr möchtet in der gemeinsamen Bibliothek lesen? Bittet die beitragende Person einfach, das gewünschte Werk mitzubringen. Entweder hier, im jeweiligen Veranstaltungsthread oder per Clubmail.

Grüße
Alan



Fokus auf Praxis, Anleitungen

  • Das Bondage-Handbuch – Anleitung zum erotischen Fesseln (Matthias Grimme): @****a50
  • The Little Guide to Getting Tied Up – Tips for rope bondage bottoms (Evie Vane): @*******ner
  • Better Bondage for Every Body (Evie Vane): @*******ner und @*********etta
  • Somatics for Rope Bottoms (Natasha NawaTaNeko): @*******ner (bei @**********ragon)
  • Gestalta Teaches Shibari Suspensions – A Step by Step Guide (Gestalta): @*******ner
  • Essence of Shibari – Kinbaku and Japanese Rope Bondage (Shin Nawakiri): @*******ner
  • Tying and Flying – Bondage for self-suspension (Shay Tiziano): @*******ner und @*********etta
  • Complete Shibari – Volume 1: Land (Douglas Kent): @*******ner (bei @*********etta)
  • Complete Shibari – Volume 2: Sky (Douglas Kent): @*******ner (derzeit unbekannt verzogen)
  • Douglas Kent's Rogue Hojojutsu (Douglas Kent): @*******ner



Fokus auf Hintergrund, Geschichte, Philosophie (@*******ner)

  • Archaeology of Personalities – a linguistic approach to rope bondage (Georg Barkas): (bei @*********itRis)
  • The Beauty of Kinbaku (Master K)
  • The Psychology of BDSM & Rope Bondage (Sin)
  • Year of the Bakushi (Sin)
  • The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage (Midori)
  • Kinbaku Society of Berlin Magazine (#3, #4, #6, #7, #8, #9, #10, #11)
  • Letters from Tokyo (Osada Steve)



Kunst (Bildbände, Unterhaltung) (@*******ner)

  • Fet-Erotica – Special Edition: Street Shibari Project NYC
  • Fet-Erotica – Special Edition 2020: Shibari | Kinbaku
  • Fet-Erotica – April 2021: Fetish Collection
  • Ten (Brook, Rickman)
  • Sunstone 1-7 (Šejić) (teilweise bei @*****ass)
  • Safeword (Martin)



Liebe, Beziehungsformen, Sexualität (@*******ner)

  • Jein! – Bindungsängste erkennen und bewältigen (Stahl)
  • Die Psychologie sexueller Leidenschaft (Schnarch)
  • Komm, wie du willst (Nagoski)
  • Wie wir lieben – Vom Ende der Monogamie (Karig)
  • Lob der offenen Beziehung – Über Liebe, Sex, Vernunft und Glück (Schott)
  • More Than Two – A Pracitical Guide to Ethical Polyamory (Veaux, Rickert, Gill)
  • The Ethical Slut – A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love (Hardy, Easton)
  • Beyond Monogamy – Polyamory and the Future of Polyqueer Sexualities (Schippers)
  • Radikale Zärtlichkeit – Warum Liebe politisch ist (Kurt)
  • Love's not Color Blind – Race and Representation in Polyamorous and other alternative communities (Patterson)
  • Sex at Dawn – The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality (Ryan)
  • Polysecure – Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy (Fern)



Erotische Hypnose (@*******ner)

  • Look Into My Eyes – How to use hypnosis to bring out the best in your sex life (Masters)
  • Mind Play – A Guide to Erotic hypnosis (Wiseman)
  • The Mind Play Study Guide (Wiseman)
  • The Brainwashing Book – Hypnotic, Erotic Behaviorism and Beyond (sleepingirl)
  • Kinky NLP – Neuro-Linguistic Programming for Erotic Hypnosis (sleepingirl)



Sonstiges (@*******ner)

  • Please Scream Quietly – A Story of Kink (Fennell)
  • Creating Captivating Classes – A Guide for Kink, Sexuality, and Relationship Presenters (Tiziano, Tiziano)
  • Creepology – Self-Defense for Your Social Life (Banks)

*******ner Mann
224 Beiträge
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Bücher zum Lernen
The Little Guide to Getting Tied Up – Tips for rope bondage bottoms (Evie Vane)

*****************nfassung:
The first-ever full-length guide to getting tied up, from bedroom play to advanced suspensions. You'll learn all about finding the right rope partner, types of rope scenes, avoiding injuries, pain processing, and the 7 Helpful Skills of Rope Bottoming, including Mindfulness, Being Prepared, and Communicating With Your Rope Top. You'll also learn how to evaluate a suspension hardpoint for safety and much more!

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/23114877


Better Bondage for Every Body (Evie Vane, with rope bondage experts from around the world)

*****************nfassung:
Love getting tied up for fun? Just curious? This extraordinary celebration of rope bondage (aka shibari or kinbaku) combines glorious full-color photos, groundbreaking research, and tips found nowhere else in one must-read book. You’ll get insightful writings by rope bondage experts worldwide on topics like pain processing, anatomy, and rope relationships—plus the stretching warm-up you’ve been waiting for. And if you’re a rope bottom who’s curvy, male, 40+, or gender-nonconforming, or you have a special physical condition like fibromyalgia, you’ll get helpful ideas tailored just for you, gathered from bondage lovers spanning the globe.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/35273055


Gestalta Teaches Shibari Suspensions – A Step by Step Guide (Gestalta)

*****************nfassung:
Gestalta sets out to teach how to bind a model or partner so that they are suspended in the air. This is a book for those who already have some experience with rope bondage and want to progress to more advanced suspensions. The book shows how to prepare the suspension points, and goes into great detail about the safety aspects of suspending a person with ropes. The book goes on to show how to tie the harnesses which are used in lifting the person and gives step by step guidance on how to perform various versions of suspension.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/40995703


Essence of Shibari – Kinbaku and Japanese Rope Bondage (Shin Nawakiri)

*****************nfassung:
The art of kinbaku, also known as shibari, is an elegant way to connect with a partner or add erotic spice in your life. Japanese-style bondage artist Shin Nawakiri shares his safe, sexy, and beautiful techniques in this newly-translated book, which contains numerous ties for the beginner artist and for intermediate or advanced players, including: sensual body wrapping without knots, binding one wrist or body column, body harnesses, futomomo (thigh ties), and takate kote (chest and arm binding). Explore the history of kinbaku, practical shibari for graceful and steamy play, the psychology of bondage (for those tying and those being bound), and more.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/32713229


Tying and Flying – Bondage for self-suspension (Shay Tiziano)

*****************nfassung:
Self-suspension can be used for dynamic movement, exploring intense sensation, performance, learning partnered bondage, ritual, and more. This first-ever guide to self-suspension takes a thorough and nondogmatic approach, including everything from meticulous safety information to practical step-by-step rope bondage instruction.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/50802341
*******ner Mann
224 Beiträge
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Bücher zum Hintergrund
Archaeology of Personalities – a linguistic approach to rope bondage (Georg Barkas)

*****************nfassung:
In "Archaeology of Personalities", the author tries to fill the gap of a philosophical interpretation of erotic rope bondage. Starting from the vague perspective of bondage as some kind of communication, the study develops step by step a broad basis for an understanding of the power structures with a specific communication discourse. By deconstructing the contexts it ends up at erotic rope bondage being described through the metaphor of an interview. This image not only helps understanding existing ways of practicing erotic rope bondage but it enables to use erotic rope bondage itself as a tool for exploring each others personalities."

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/35060759


The Beauty of Kinbaku (Master K)

*****************nfassung:
[A] book which tells the complete story of the remarkable, sensual and provocative world of Japanese erotic bondage. The Beauty of Kinbaku, a new work by renowned authority and teacher Master K, is the result of four years of research, much of it in Japan, making it the most comprehensive volume on its subject in English.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/7685646


The Psychology of BDSM & Rope Bondage (Sin)

*****************nfassung:
Why do we enjoy adult games? What drives our sexual urges, fantasies and libidos? What motivates us to indulge in domination and submission play? What makes us sadistic or masochistic? Why do we like to tie our partners, or be restrained ourselves? With so many becoming increasingly interested to enter the kink, fetish, sadomasochism and rope bondage; Kinbaku/Shibari scenes, The Psychology of BDSM & Rope Bondage explores who we are, why we seek these adventures, dangers and warning signs, advice and techniques, and how to use our emotional intelligence to maximise our potential enjoyment, while minimising the risks.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/43700206


Year of the Bakushi (Sin)

*****************nfassung:
A detailed account of the human elements of kinbaku BDSM sexual bondage from an international underground performer of the deeply erotic kan'nonawa style. Without images, the book reveals the mysteries of sado-masochism, skill and connectivity of rope play using shibari techniques and psychology as a provider of carnal desires from the male perspective. The book highlights the world of a secretive bakushi - emotional, psychological and physical comprehension, values, etiquette, history, stagecraft and methodology in servicing the aims of the submissive female libido in a sometimes witty and open manner.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/31860343


The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage (Midori)

*****************nfassung:
From ornately decorative to excruciatingly stringent, Japanese rope bondage is an art which has developed over centuries of martial and erotic practice. Now, accomplished Japanese-born pro-domme and bondage practitioner Midori shows step by step how to achieve beautiful and exciting Japanese bondage on a variety of genders and body types.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/504119
*********petta Frau
208 Beiträge
Gruppen-Mod 
Evie Vane - Better Bondage for Every Body
****************nfassung:
Love getting tied up for fun? Just curious? This extraordinary celebration of rope bondage (aka shibari or kinbaku) combines glorious full-color photos, groundbreaking research, and tips found nowhere else in one must-read book. You’ll get insightful writings by rope bondage experts worldwide on topics like pain processing, anatomy, and rope relationships—plus the stretching warm-up you’ve been waiting for. And if you’re a rope bottom who’s curvy, male, 40+, or gender-nonconforming, or you have a special physical condition like fibromyalgia, you’ll get helpful ideas tailored just for you, gathered from bondage lovers spanning the globe.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/35273055
****a50 Frau
510 Beiträge
Moin Alan , Check doch bitte kurz mal den link zu „year of the bakushi“ ... glaube da passt was nicht ...
Und danke für die super Idee mit den Büchern ! Lieb von dir/euch das anzubieten 😁
*******ner Mann
224 Beiträge
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Zitat von ****a50:
Check doch bitte kurz mal den link zu „year of the bakushi“ ... glaube da passt was nicht ...

Uuuh, da scheine ich versehentlich die letzte Ziffer der URL abgeschnitten zu haben. Schön, dass du so aufmerksam bist, ich habs direkt gefixt :). Danke!
****a50 Frau
510 Beiträge
Das Bondage-Handbuch
Das ist mein Bondagebuch. Es war mein Einstieg ins Thema und bietet einen guten Überblick. Ich hatte damals noch keinerlei Erfahrungen oder Berührung mit dem Seil. Bin tatsächlich über Fotos hier im JC getriggert worden. Meine Neugier wuchs und ich begann mich mit dem Thema zu beschäftigen. Mir gefiel das Buch damals sehr gut, weil es informativ und sachlich mit dem Thema umgeht und es für mich damit Bondage aus der „Schmuddelecke“ heraus geholt hat.
Hallo Hanna,

mit dem Buch bin vor 11 Jahren auch ich eingestiegen *g*
Zuvor hatte ich rein intuitiv gefesselt. *gg*
Ein wirklich tolles Buch, in dem gut erklärt wird. Mit dem Wissen aus dem Buch habe ich ein paar Jahre gelernt und geübt, um mit dem Seil "zu verwachsen". *top*

lg
Wolf
*******ner Mann
224 Beiträge
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Mehr Bücher zum Lernen
Complete Shibari – Volume 1: Land (Douglas Kent)

*****************nfassung:
[This book] explores the essential ground-based ties and forms of shibari. With short, clear explanations and over 450 lavish, step-by-step illustrations and photographs, Douglas Kent introduces the basic "building blocks," then guides you in applying those basics to create a full range of beautiful and exciting ground-based shibari ties. This is not a "knot book" - if you can tie an overhand knot, you already know half the knots you'll ever need. This practical, hands-on guide to doing shibari covers everything from choosing and preparing rope, to scene safety, to the techniques... and the reasoning behind the techniques.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/8191695


Complete Shibari – Volume 2: Sky (Douglas Kent)

*****************nfassung:
[This book] builds on the material from Volume 1: Land and explores the spectacular techniques of erotic rope suspensions. With short, clear explanations and over 340 lavish, step-by-step illustrations and photographs, Douglas Kent takes the intimidating world of shibari suspensions and makes it practical and straightforward. As with the previous volume, this is not a "knot book," but a straight-forward, hands-on guide for people interested in actually doing suspensions. This practical guide covers everything from scene safety, through establishing anchor points and selecting suspension hardware, to the physics and skills needed to suspend a human body safely and beautifully. Complete Shibari Volume 2: Sky is a ground-breaking, must-have book for anyone interested in taking their rope play to the next level... and into the air!

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/8191696


Rogue Hojojutsu (Douglas Kent)

*****************nfassung:
Using simple, clear instructions and over 400 images, author Douglas Kent details how to construct over 90 forms, and countless customizations, ranging from ties you can finish in a few seconds to beautifully complex works of art. But don't expect a traditional, reverential treatment of Hojojutsu. Kent strips away the myths surrounding this ancient art, revealing surprising facts about the rogues on both sides of the ropes. Rogue Hojojutsu is a must have for martial artists and rope enthusiasts alike.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/39699762
*******ner Mann
224 Beiträge
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Folgender Neuerwerb befindet sich noch in der Post, aber ich bin schon sehr gespannt. Die Autorin und ihr Partner schreiben ansonsten nämlich sehr fundierte und durchdachte Essays.


Somatics for Rope Bottoms (Natasha NawaTaNeko)

***************fassung:
In rope bondage, what we rope bottoms bring into play is our body, our emotions, our psyche, and souls. Our whole being in its entirety is known as the Greek word “soma.” We allow ourselves to be affected on many levels, exposed to playing with our emotions, enduring physical discomfort, and open to mental challenges. What is truly remarkable about our soma is its unlimited capacity to adapt and learn. Soma is endlessly creative, always undergoing that endless cycle of life, and change; leaving behind the familiar terrain and entering into the unknown. Rope bottoming is a somatic discipline, says Natasha NawaTaNeko. Through developing our ability to sense and regulate ourselves, we can have the experience we are yearning for. Bringing together her passion and experience as a Kinbaku model, her professional background in sexological bodywork and personal research on the topic of somatic change, Natasha developed a structure for rope bottoms to deepen their experience in ropes making it more internal, conscious and safe and to access a profound state of true surrender.

https://www.amazon.de/dp/B08F6CG95R/
****a50 Frau
510 Beiträge
Das klingt super spannend - hoffe du berichtest darüber oder bringst es mal mit.
*******ner Mann
224 Beiträge
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Habe noch mehr Stoff in meinem Bücherregal, den ich hier zur Ansicht anbieten möchte. Diesmal ohne Zusammenfassungen. Einfach selbst auf die Links klicken :).

Einmal Unterhaltung aus dem BDSM-Bereich, Bildbände/Magazine mit Shibari-Bezug und dann noch Literatur zu den etwas entfernteren Themen Hypnose, Beziehungen, Sexualität.


# Hintergrund

Kinbaku Society of Berlin Magazine #3, #4, #6, #7, #8
-> http://kinbaku-society.org/de/die-magazine/


# Bildbände

Fet-Erotica -- Special Edition: Street Shibari Project NYC
Fet-Erotica -- Special Edition: Shibari | Kinbaku
Fet-Erotica -- April 2021: Fetish Collection
-> https://www.magcloud.com/user/feterotica

Ten (Brook, Rickman)
-> https://studiokokoro.co.uk/ten/


# Unterhaltung

Sunstone 1-7 (Sejic)
-> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/23294727

Safeword (Martin)
-> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/16004303


# Liebe, Beziehung, Sexualität

Jein! - Bindungsängste erkennen und bewältigen (Stahl)
-> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/7348559

Die Psychologie sexueller Leidenschaft (Schnarch)
-> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6957608

Komm, wie du willst (Nagoski)
-> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/36408020

Wie wir lieben -- Vom Ende der Monogamie (Karig)
-> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/34338615

Lob der offenen Beziehung -- Über Liebe, Sex, Vernunft und Glück (Schott)
-> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/9726455

More Than Two -- A Pracitical Guide to Ethical Polyamory (Veaux, Rickert, Gill)
-> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/21955937

The Ethical Slut -- A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love (Hardy, Easton)
-> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/40768434

Beyond Monogamy -- Polyamory and the Future of Polyqueer Sexualities (Schippers)
-> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/27558356

Radikale Zärtlichkeit -- Warum Liebe politisch ist (Kurt)
-> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/56593439

Love's not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and other alternative communities (Patterson)
-> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/36206376beyond


# (Erotische) Hypnose

Look Into My Eyes -- How to use hypnosis to bring out the best in your sex life (Masters)
-> https://smile.amazon.de/dp/1440449864

Mind Play -- A Guide to Erotic hypnosis (Wiseman)
-> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18178582

The Mind Play Study Guide (Wiseman)
-> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25731747

The Brainwashing Book – Hypnotic, Erotic Behaviorism and Beyond (sleepingirl)
-> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/48733615
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