With all due respect to the host, and the party itself I can no longer stay silent.
I think people should know that no matter how big the event is the organization should take care of everything seriously.
So here is the truth.
I was saying nothing, but the truth so let me help you to understand the nature of my comment by elaborating on the details of what happened that night.
It was not the first time we were attending such sort of events. We were in Soho (Graz), in UniqueX (Vienna), and also in SamePlace (Amsterdam). Through all these experiences we were getting nothing, but good emotions and a friendly community. So we're aware of how such events should run.
We were prepared that there would be some single men with an equal amount of their/other single women, but the organizer even though lying to us about the guest list took no responsibility to tell single men how they should behave.
And here is why:
1. No welcome/rules speech. In most scenarios you know, once the event starts the host tells the rules to everyone (sometimes at the entrance). But that night there was no welcome, etc speech.
2. The dress code was not followed. Everyone could enter despite the capacity of the club or dress code. Some of the men even were dressed in sports shoes, t-shirts, and pants. Some people were allowed even without a mask.
3. Single men were too much. The organizer should have been able to realize how balanced the party should be, but they did not care seems to be. We ended up with too many single men.
…but the list above is just to warm you up. Let’s go to the main stage. The biggest shock to us was the fact that some single men were harassing my wife that night. At least two times she was almost crying!
1. The first case was while we were having fun some single man approached us very quickly and put his hand right between her legs! He was not doing any sort of pre-touching or speaking/asking us. Without anything, but force he put his hand in her puss*! How would you treat that? But this is not the end. We were forced to push him away, but instead, he treated this as a challenge so he stayed 0.5 meters away by simply starting jerkin* off on us with a mad face!
2. The second case was when some other single man came close to us while he was jerking off. With his wet hands (we don’t know wet of what) he started to touch my wife everywhere. Uhhh… Is this okay? Shall we be ready for this? I believe don’t. No pre-touch/soft touch was intended. Did he tell/know that you should have be clean and with clean hands before touching others? Seems nope. This is crazy I believe.
3. The third time was when we explicitly went to a couple zone and locked our bed with curtains, to have fun in private. Some singles instead of understanding that they’re not allowed to even enter a private zone started jerking on us from a 1-meter distance without any reaction even though we were telling them to go out. Do they don’t know English? I don’t believe so.
…so shall I continue? Or you might be just read the comments of other to find a correlation of our words with the reviews from other couple on this event.
We know that this was not a couples-only party, but yet the organized did nothing to make this party safe and obey single men to follow the rules (if they even exist in such a place).
Oh yes, you would say why did we not report this immediately? Right, how would you feel later in the club by starting this mess right in the club? So we decided to just don’t care for the try to enjoy the pleasure. At least what has been left.
So by coming back hope to describe what happened to the host in a private message, but here told us that all our fault. Google Translate fault etc, but not their.
We wanted to get some apology at least, but instead were covered with shame.
The fact that the rating of this organizer is modified by the wish of the host is no doubt. We wish to go there no more, ever.
We left an honest, but short review with a 1 rating score and it was silently removed.
The reason they told us - we were using insulting language: stating the words “too unintelligent” and “singles stalk us all night” is inappropriate.
Absolutely no go for us.
Thanks
P.S.
Not all singles were that bad, but some of them truly are. And the host is unwilling to accept any responsibility for this at all.